Always be respectful and deferential in all contact or communication with Mistress. Be truthful, open and polite and you cannot go far wrong.

Mistress should have received your written answers as to your preferences in a play and will also have had telephone conversations with you before you meet her. She will discuss various options with you and ascertain your needs and what concerns or worries you. She will then tailor the session to meet what she feels are the best ways to develop and bring you on. During the session, you will be permitted to speak so that you can communicate your feelings to her.

By no means. Mistress has many ways of making you obey her and though pain may be one of them, it is by no means necessary. Should the slave beg Mistress to be excused from hard punishment, she will always show mercy.

Yes, definitely. Even should Mistress feel that you need correction via a schooling whip or cane, she is skilled enough to wield them so that you are left with only rudimentary marks, that should be gone within two to four hours.

No she will not. Mistress is Gorean and does not allow safe words. However, she WILL permit the slave to ask to speak at any time in the session and will then listen carefully to any concerns or problems they may be experiencing. she will then take steps to address and alleviate these, providing the request is made with the utmost humility and respect.

Mistress will not be shocked by anything that you ask her as long as your enquiry is based with the utmost respect. Why not send her an email explaining in full what you would like? If Mistress is not willing or is unable to accommodate you, be sure that she will tell you so without being judgmental or negative.

No. Mistress does not provide sexual services, although she may allow the slave to give himself relief, should the slave prove pleasing.
If you are genuinely unsure as to whether your requirements are classed as sexual services, you may email Mistress for clarification.
This does not constitute an invitation to describe your sexual fantasies in detail. Potential clients who attempt to do this will be refused further bookings.

The simple answer is that you cannot. While she does understand your concerns, Mistress has been forced into the decision to stipulate deposits on bookings because of the few time wasters who spoil things for everyone else. It is no fun at all for her to plan a session around information given to her by a client, get ready to receive him and then the person does not turn up. There has to be trust on both sides. Mistress trusts you enough to spend a lot of time talking to you and ascertaining your needs before spending even more time planning a session for you alone. She feels that you should trust her enough to comply with her ruling about deposits. If you cannot, then she feels that the session will not work between her and you anyway.

If you are able to give Mistress at least twenty four hours notice that you cannot attend a session, she will usually allow you to use the deposit for another booking, provided that this is made within fourteen days. Cancellations made less than twenty four hours before the session will be none returnable.

In certain circumstances Mistress will accept same-day bookings, although, slaves must be in a position to pay a deposit.

If you want a same-day appointment, you may phone 07943 909 334 between the hours of 10:00 a.m. and 2:00 p.m.

Just use the section on the "Application to serve page".If you have problems filling this in, do not worry and just do the best you can.